None of It Was Your Fault, Yet You Healed Me
an open letter for my love.
Life throws a lot of adversity that leave us feeling hurt and broken. The weight of past traumas and pain can be overwhelming — making us feel lost and alone — It makes us believe that no one will truly understand what we’re going through. But then, in a very unexpected way someone comes into our lives and changes everything, helping us heal in ways we never thought possible.
none of it was your fault, but you helped me heal through it anyway.
You weren’t the cause of my pain, yet you became the most important part of my healing process. You treated me with kindness, patience, and an open heart, giving me the support and love I desperately needed.
When we met, I was carrying the heavy burden of my past — the experiences and traumas that left deep scars and bruises that is still unhealed, all of this made me struggle to trust and open up to anyone.
I was afraid of being hurt again, of being vulnerable.
But there’s you, who saw through my defenses and validated the pain that I was feeling. You didn’t asked me to explain; instead, you offered an ear to listen and made a safe space for me to slowly begin to heal.
kinaya ko kasi kasama kita.
Alam kong may pasan ka ring sakit, ngunit hindi ka nagdalawang isip na tulungan akong buhatin ang sa’kin. Patuloy kang nakikinig sa mga kuwento kong paulit-ulit, at kahit kailan hindi mo ako hinusgahan kundi kinampihan kahit ang kalaban ay karamihan.
Even though you weren’t responsible for my struggles, you became my healer who heals with grace and compassion. You reminded me that it is okay to have bad days, to feel lost sometimes, and to be gentle with myself. None of it was your fault, but you helped me through it anyway, and for that, I am thankful.
Thankyou for being there for me, for being my healer, and for giving me your love. Your presence is a gift beyond measure, and I am grateful to have you in my life, my rebii.
